| Location | South Shields |
| Age | 81 years |
| Date of Birth | 3/1926 |
| Date of Death | 12/2007 |
| Visitors | 465 since 27/01/2008 |
| Creator |
My Grandad was my world, he was my best friend.
Albert Ben Bedson fought in the second world war from start to finish, He was badly injured when he got shot and it blew part of his leg away. He had several jobs from then ranging from a doorman to a taxi driver. My Grandad was never blessed with good health, he had many heart attacks and strokes and his war injurys left him in constant pain for over 60 years of his life, He didnt complain, He just got on with it, He was a well respected and strong man, the biggest personality, the loudest laugh, a fantastic sense of humour and the warmest biggest heart a man could have. I Love You Grandad xxx
On the 31st December 2007 at 10.00pm Ben passed away in hospital
He went in to hospital with dangerously high water surrounding his heart and lungs and was put on medication to reduce the amount of water in his body. But because of all the heart attacks and strokes he had had in life weakened his heart meaning they couldnt give him the kind of medication he needed or it would make his heart fail to work. The only other alternative was to put him on a different medicine with serious side effects, this medication slowly made him ill and caused his kidneys to start failing, So either way theres nothing could be done to save my grandads life. His heart stopped and they couldnt bring him back, He wasnt strong enough. He went in to hospital for a check up and never came out.
His GreatGrandson was born 6 days after he died.
i miss you so so much and i think about you every day.
hi grandad, im lookin gor a spiritualist to come to my house to see if i can talk to you, please come back to me, just for half a hour...
i miss you =[ so badly. i could never explaine how much in words, i could only show you.
till we meet at those pearly gates, i know you will be waiting for me
i love you xxx
I miss you
I will never rest until i know why you were taken from me,
I cant forgive god and i will never forget the pain he has caused us.
I'm sorry i cant be strong and accept that your gone, i miss you too much, you were my best friend and deep down you always will be.
There's no one like you, your special to everyone who knows you.
Peter misses you and talks about you occasionally but i try to change the subject because i just crumble and cry.
One day i will find the strength to accept your not hear and i will be able to talk about you to the boy's.
There's nothing i wanted more than for you to meet Benjamin but you died 6 days before he was born.
When i got to the hospital to find you had already died i stood by you and held your hand to my tummy and let you connect with Benjamin.
You looked so peaceful, i didn't want to leave you, i wanted to lie with you on the hospital bed, but your such a big man and i was way too pregnant that there was no chance i could get on next to you so i just kissed you on the head instead.
Having my little boy's is helping me to be strong, but i need you to help me to, stay with me till i see you again.
Love you lots and i will think of you every day. xxx
i love you my special man :)
Grandad, nothing ever changes, i still love you more than ever, it will never go away,
yesterday i got your suit out my wardrobe for the first time since you left me... it doesn't smell like you anymore, it was all i had left of you.... now your gone forever
i miss you so so much... come to me at night, i wont be afraid i promise
i just want to touch you.... :(
grandad :(
i miss you so so much, i just want to be with you
i need you next to me
i love you :( xxxx
hi ya special head
Having a really shitty day today grandad, nothing seems to be going rite for me lately. as usuall if im feeling down i come to see you and looking at you helps me feel better.
wish i could see you, in need of some serious huggs.
hope heaven is treating you good
i love you xxx
i miss you so much
Never take someonefor granted...Hold special people close to your heart...Because you might wake up one day and realise that you've lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones...
I LOVE YOU GRANDAD XXXX
Grandad - everyday i think of you and theres not one i dont miss you, i hold your memory in my heart and i never forget you, love you always
brian xxxxx
hi ya top man xx
grandad i still miss you like it was yesterday, it still hurts like i cant explaine. keep giving my nana the strength you have gave her to live without you, and thank you so so much for giving me back my baby boy when he was born
he is my world, he is a truely amazing little boy. i wish you could of hugged him xxx
i will love you forever and ever always xxxx
grandad
Hi ya special man,
i just thought i would come on hear to write something for you, but once im on my words dissapear and i dont know what to say,
i guess i just miss you so much and nothing can express how much.
love you loads, see you some day, who knows when xxxxxx
I MISS YOU
AL NEVER FORGET THE DAY YOU WENT AWAY,
ALL I WANTED WAS FOR US TO BE TOGETHER AND FOR YOU NOT TO LEAVE
I LOVE YOU AND I ALWAYS WILL, I MISS YOU SO SO MUCH AND THE PAIN ONLY GETS STRONGER
I WISH I COULD SEE YOU JUST FOR A MINUTE XX
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